I always keep thinking at times for the remark made by one of my close friend's on calling me - Destiny's Child! Never still have understood the reason for it nor understood what it meant until now...

Destiny's Child - what does it actually mean? Does it mean that I will be controlled by my destiny and never be able to judge what is good or bad...always learn with experience? Or does it mean that whatever happens shall happen for the good or bad? Life sometimes makes me wonder on these two words and what are its effects on me! In my entire life...I have just kept learning on things, observing ppl & trying to understand what is good or bad, right or wrong. And still after understanding the same, I come back to square one at times asking the question - Why does it happen this way? Why does it have to happen to me only? Is it coz I have no control over what I think or do! Am I not able to learn from my past experiences and improve on it?

I strongly believe in this quote marked in the cartoon series "Calvin and Hobbes" by Bill Watterson - 'The problem about the future is that it keeps changing to the present!'. As I write this blog, the only one thought coming to my mind is - Are the things that are happening to me & around me is good or bad? Though I think and believe that it is happening for my better! There is always that amount of fear as to what will happen when things don’t go the way I dreamt! What if tomorrow things are not the same as today...

There are times when elderly people say to me - What has to happen will happen and one cannot change it, so leave it on God! If so, then why do we think about it spending most of our time and energy on the unknown...thinking about all those negatives and positives related to it. We express our emotions to all kinds of thoughts and actions that we have no control over!

(Ain't it strange? Now I am sure you would thinking about the same too! :D)

God only knows where our thinking would lead to but as of now I will take my friend’s word for me because I am not sure as to what would happen to me and leave it entire on Destiny!

AMEN!!!